A Reply 20 Years Late

Twenty years ago, an anonymous mother was looking for help for her teenage son. He had confessed through tears that he was a pedophile.

Are We Just Delusional?

Are we delusional for believing that pedophilia does not define us? Some would say yes, but the Bible (and Puddleglum) tell a different story.

Choosing Friendship

I used to believe that unwanted same-sex attraction made it impossible for me to have friendships. That changed when I learned to surrender to God.

Baggage or Biography?

Recently I was talking to a friend about some of the ongoing difficulties my past sins have caused, and how I see myself. He used an interesting term to frame what I was doing: holding on to emotional and spiritual baggage.

Our Firm Foundation

The Bible is God’s supernaturally revealed inerrant message to us. Here, I want to give a very broad description of how the Bible is our foundation.

Millstones

“If anyone causes one of these little ones – those who believe in me – to stumble, it would be better for them to have a large millstone hung around their neck and to be drowned in the depths of the sea…”

Loss

Living with pedophilia usually comes with significant losses; no surprise there. But unlike most other situations of loss, it can be very difficult to communicate to anyone what we’ve lost, and why it matters.

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